When a child is in the creation phase, several factors can contribute to the formation of his personality. Several studies have proven that painful experiences in childhood can generate a traumatized adult. Therefore, those responsible for the child must be aware of how they are contributing to their personality. Check out 5 features of childhood problems.
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The first point to be understood is that the personality developed, as an adult, is not entirely the individual's fault. Having self-compassion is fundamental in the process, as it is common to have the feeling of double jeopardy, that is, being hurt in childhood and carrying the scars in adult life.
So, check out 5 characteristics related to a traumatized childhood below:
- neuroticism
When an adult has to deal with difficult situations and doesn't know how to manage them, this is often understandable. For, as a child, he may have had a childhood dictated by negative emotions (which are prone to depression, worry, anger, panic, or anxiety).
- anger and aggression
Childhood adversities may influence the adult to be an angry, hostile, or physically aggressive person. In addition, these people may end up acting compulsively. This may all have been developed by measures to protect against childhood loss and mistreatment.
- low kindness
Those who were very mistreated in childhood usually have difficulties dealing with arguments in adult life. Related to several negative emotions, they end up choosing to do everything alone and, therefore, distance themselves from people.
- External guidance for success
Sometimes the feeling of vulnerability is so present that it can lead a person to be proud and arrogant. It is common to see people of this type aiming for fame and financial success, because being on these levels they will alleviate the pain and deprivation of the past.
- low engagement
These are people who may struggle to find constructive activities that they really enjoy doing. They don't have a clear sense of purpose. They have a resistance to feeling good about themselves, in addition to constantly fighting for productivity. They tend to be independent and, for the moment, indifferent.