If you do any of these 6 things, you're boring and you don't even know it

Every group, whether friends, work, church or even family, has an annoying person. He knows? The one that when she arrives everyone rolls their eyes because no one wants to have to deal with her. If you don't see anyone like that, maybe you're the annoying one.

Jokes aside, there are some attitudes that make coexistence with this person a real test by fire – or, at the very least, very difficult. And, at the end of the article, you will agree with this statement.

Check out six attitudes below that make anyone very annoying, irritating and unbearable. If you do any of these things, it's time to rethink your behavior.

6 things that make you very boring

Meddling

One of the things that makes you the annoying one in the group is meddling in various subjects in which you weren't even invited. The rule is very simple, if they aren't talking to you or haven't asked your opinion, keep to yourself.

Speak loudly

Nobody likes people who talk while shouting. Because there are things that not everyone is forced to hear – and not every environment has tolerance for very loud talking.

Here it is important not to confuse expansive and extroverted people with boring people who talk loudly. One thing has nothing to do with the other.

Complain too much

Let's agree: every now and then complain it is very good. However, there is a very thin threshold between venting and boring. In addition to weighing down the conversation and energy of everyone around, it's boring to talk to that person who only knows how to complain and complain.

Here's a tip: if you're going to complain about something or criticize something, at least do something to change it. It's less ugly.

Talking “catching”

It's okay if your love language is physical touch, but it may not be that of other people in your circle of friends. It's very unpleasant. Remember that you are not the Selena Gomez to stay away “can’t keep my hands to myself”.

Being against

Not everyone agrees with everything and that's a good thing for any healthy debate. However, you are boring when your only opinion is to criticize others. Open your mind, listen more and talk less.

Wanting to be part of the group – when it clearly isn’t

We’re not talking about anything half.”Mean Girls” or encouraging bullying. But there are people who force friendship, you know? This is very boring. Because friendship is achieved over time and with affinities and there are connections that simply don't work out. There's no point in insisting.

Graduated in Social Communication from the Federal University of Goiás. Passionate about digital media, pop culture, technology, politics and psychoanalysis.