To the women they always question themselves or try to imagine what men are looking for in a date, both to not be caught off guard and to not disappoint their expectations. Therefore, we brought a report that shows that 63% of men they seek the best of themselves from the moment of first contact, because that is what they want when they are dating.
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Find out what men look for on a first date
Check out now what men look for on a first date, given their need to play a better version of themselves:
- The fight for space between men and women
Contrary to what many believe, men do not fight to take up space during a conversation, while women seek to speak more and be heard.
Thus, considering that men have less intimate friendships, only 30% of them report having had a private conversation with a friend in recent weeks.
This justifies the reason why they prefer to dialogue with women and seek an opportunity to be more communicative in the encounter.
In dating the same thing happens. Men tend to see women as their confidants, while women are more likely to share their feelings with others.
- The quest for understanding
Lack of communication can be the main reason that makes men feel misunderstood.
Given this, they seek precisely this greater communication in the meeting, not only out of interest in you, but to have the opportunity to finally be understood.
That's why it's so important, during a meeting, to be open to listening to the other's experiences and learning from them. In this way, empathy and listening skills are the great differentials to become a more attractive person for men.