It is common that, in the society we live in, beauty is one of the most valued characteristics in a person. However, this generates comparisons between people around a standard of beauty.
This problem caused a misunderstanding between two sisters, when one did not want to name the other as her maid of honor at the wedding because she was jealous of her beauty.
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Bride does not let her sister be her maid of honor: 'too beautiful'
A bride wrote a post on the website reddit asking users' opinion about an unusual decision. She asked if she was being selfish for not asking her sister to be the maid of honor at her wedding because she thought she was "too pretty". The bride says that she has always felt insecure when she was close to her sister because she always felt less beautiful than her.
The bride considers herself a 'home-made' woman
The 25-year-old woman says she considers herself a “homely” woman: “I'm a homely-looking girl. There's no other way to say it. "I'm not hot or pretty by most people's standards," she writes on her blog.
Reddit. But when describing her sister, Bella, she refers to herself as "the most beautiful woman that ever walked the planet".different parents
The bride says they are daughters of different fathers: “We have different fathers and I think she just won the genetic lottery. I was jealous of her as a child, because we were always compared to each other”.
She points out that while she doesn't want her sister at her wedding, she thinks she's a genuinely great person. The woman spares no praise for talking about her sister: “She is humble and sweet and, although she could win life with her looks, ended up going into social work and now works with children in a orphanage."
She was maid of honor at her sister's wedding.
The bride says that two years ago, she was invited as a maid of honor at her sister Bella's wedding. Now that it's her turn, the bride feels obliged to return the favor to her sister, but reports being apprehensive because of her beauty.
The sister got upset
The bride's sister was told that she would not be invited to her wedding party, and she expressed that it was very difficult for her to be excluded based on her appearance.
The bride is currently in therapy to deal with family and self-image issues, which she has struggled with since she turned 18. Although she has made progress, she still hasn't fully resolved her issues.
In addition, the bride mentioned that she has a facial deformity due to the malformation of her jaw during pregnancy, which resulted in a misshapen chin and mouth.
Internet users' opinion
Most netizens said the bride was acting like a 'complete idiot', here are some of the most liked comments:
“At the wedding, you would be 100% the center of attention. No one who cares about people compares the bride the way you fear," someone else noted. Another person claimed that the bride's feelings of insecurity were "totally valid".
"Your appearance won't be what's on display that day, it'll be love," someone else said. “The love between you and your future husband, and also the love of all the people present to celebrate with you.”
The bride returned to the forum to share that she and the groom decided not to have any parties in celebration of their wedding. She said she will talk to her sister and apologize for allowing her insecurities to affect their relationship.
It's evident that the bride realized that she shouldn't let her insecurities get the better of her, recognizing that love is all that matters.
Wassup what's your opinion?