There's nothing more annoying than running out of topics on WhatsApp, right? Especially if it's someone you're interested in - a crush, a boyfriend or a healthy flirt.
In addition to having good manners and kindness, there are some other actions you can take to prevent the conversation from “dying” in the messaging application. These are simple tips, but they can provide a new tone to your flirting.
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Check out 10 infallible tips here so that the conversation with the other person keeps flowing and, who knows, you can move on to “something more”.
10 tips for not running out of topics on WhatsApp
1. use humor
The best thing when you're talking to someone is having sense of humor. No wonder this characteristic is always mentioned among the most desired for a crush.
Even if you're not a great jokester, you can send a funny meme or video that you've seen around that you know will make the other person laugh.
2. ask about the day
There are people who do not appreciate this suggestion, however, it is always a sign of attention and education. Carefully read what the other has said and you can build on some topic. Just be careful not to sound too pedantic.
3. don't be boring
Not just in flirting situations, but in any situation in the world. Whatsapp, the ideal is to be polite and kind, regardless of whether or not you are intimate with the person.
4. don't be monosyllabic
Especially if the subject is of interest to the other person. There is nothing more unpleasant than having a conversation with someone who only responds with “hmm”, “yes” and “no”. Try to explore the conversation topic properly, and over time you will come to a common denominator.
5. Send interesting news
Here we are not talking about trivial news, the ones people watch on the lunch news. Releases of music or movies, new technologies and super interesting curiosities are very welcome – you can even find several here at Escola Educação. Here's the tip!
6. Talk about food or drink
Everyone likes to eat and drink, right? Therefore, this is a subject that always yields good conversations. Ask about their favorite food, ask if they prefer wine or beer, and ask if they've eaten at any of their favorite restaurants. Who knows, maybe this is the perfect hook for an invitation to a date?
7. Who is your favorite singer or singer?
Talking about music also pays off a lot. Here's a great tip: swap playlists! It's a thoughtful way of showing that you care and are interested in what the person likes.
8. Memes, memes, memes!
Memes are infallible! Talking about what went viral on social media in recent days can give you good laughs for hours. However, one has to be careful with memes. Some may be prejudiced and offensive.
9. Shared Interests
You will only have a lasting relationship, be it love or friendship, if you reach a common denominator between your interests. Talk about what you like and ask what the person thinks. Pay attention to what she says and try to start from there.
10. “Look there, I won’t even read it”
No one deserves textão, my friend. Remember that you are not doing the essay of the enem; is flirting on WhatsApp. Be succinct. Unless it's a relationship discussion - in which case, it's best for the conversation to be done in person.
Graduated in Social Communication at the Federal University of Goiás. Passionate about digital media, pop culture, technology, politics and psychoanalysis.