Generally, the first date tends to be a little difficult for everyone, especially when you are young and without much experience on the subject. This is the time when you want to make an impression and be seen in a different light than usual. However, the millennial generation has changed the conception of tense first dates a little.
On the first date, you should present your date with the best version of yourself. Some topics in this type of meeting are not relevant, such as talking about your last relationship, discussing politics or religion. However, with the passage of time and the renewal of certain habits, young people have modified some of these rules, or even broken them altogether.
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Here are the 5 rules millennials are breaking on first dates.
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5 rules millennials are breaking on first dates:
- The man pays the bill
This is a topic that always generates a lot of controversy and has recently been on the rise in Brazil. However, this rule is falling apart nowadays, with the arrival of feminism and the empowerment of women, it is no longer necessary for the man to pay the entire bill for the first date.
Of course, if he wants to, he can still do this kind of treat for his guest, but nowadays, this kind of action can even sound old-fashioned. Nowadays, the millennial generation does not see a problem in sharing the bills of the first dates, including, many of them only leave if it is this way.
- Do not scrape the food plate
This is an old rule of first dates, but these days it's being used less and less by the millennial generation. The only observation that is still taken into account on this topic is not to try any kind of new food, because you do not know what it can cause, that is, it is better to avoid any inconvenience possible.
- Don't talk about past relationships
This rule is a first date classic, perhaps the most important of all. Back in the day, talking about your ex was like it was forbidden during the first date. However, young people are more open and willing to listen to what people have to say, including on this subject. Many facts of past relationships are important to be revealed to the new person you are meeting, in this way, it is also possible to avoid that some mistakes happen again.
- Do not talk about religion, politics and your world ideologies
This is yet another rule that is currently falling into disuse by the millennial generation. These issues are present in anyone's life, so it is common for this type of conversation to happen, even on a first date. Thus, in this way, it is possible to know a little more about the person, their opinions and ideals.
- expectations about dating
Finally, this is the last rule. It used to be bad form to talk about dating the person you just happened to be, it seemed like a desperate attempt to “get off the hook”. However, nowadays, people, especially millennials, are looking to build their lives and find someone they can be together with and create plans to start their own family. So, this subject always ends up being a topic addressed in the first meetings nowadays.
