Living together is not easy. After all, they are two people with different creations, personalities, tastes and thoughts, trying to converge in favor of a common good: love. However, we do not always manage to keep it and end up in a unhappy relationship.
We create an immense void in ourselves when we realize that our marriage or courtship has lost its primordial connection.
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Memories echo silently in our hearts, trying to rekindle a flame with just a tiny spark: the feeling we once had.
Are you going through something similar? What if we told you that there are some things you can still try to save your relationship?
We separate here three things you can try, if the love is still big enough and if you and those next to you want to try one more time. Let's go?
3 things that will save your relationship when nothing else works
Remember what made you fall in love
You can easily remember the butterflies you felt in your stomach when you saw your loved one for the first time. However, you need to try a little harder to find out how he/she stole your heart.
Maybe it's a common interest, the way of acting, the humor... There's always something more abstract that makes us jump from something casual to a real relationship. Try to rescue and see this in the other one more time.
Treat your relationship like it's still in its infancy
Remember when you canceled your plans to see who made your heart skip a beat? That desire to always be together, the countless hours in bed and the libido on the rise, the way you dressed, the care you took to impress others, etc.
Try to behave a little more in this way, having the fire of passion as your guide. This will spice things up a bit and maybe get you back together.
Experience a romantic night
Something that makes couples lose connection completely is the routine – which is completely normal and happens one way or another. One of the best ways to try to outwit this fate is with a romantic night out.
Set aside one day a week or a month to do something you did when you first met. Like it was a date, you know? Don't let anything get in the way of this day – not work, not children, not family.
This will make you see each other as priorities again. And at some point, it will get the gears turning properly again.
Graduated in Social Communication at the Federal University of Goiás. Passionate about digital media, pop culture, technology, politics and psychoanalysis.
